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Neurodiversity and time: what HR leaders and managers need to know

Time is one of the few things we all share, yet how we experience it can vary significantly. When it comes to neurodiversity and time, this variation can be even more pronounced, showing up in everything from difficulty sensing the passage of time to having specific windows of intense productivity that do not align with the standard working day.

As organisations work to become more inclusive and unlock the full potential of their teams, understanding how time shows up differently for different people is not a nice-to-have. It is an essential part of good management.

Neurodiversity and time blindness: a hidden challenge

One of the most common time-related challenges for neurodivergent people, particularly those with ADHD or autism, is time blindness. This is a neurological trait that makes it difficult to sense the passage of time or estimate how long tasks will take.

For managers, this can look like:

  • Missed deadlines and consistent difficulty with time estimation
  • Overcommitting or underestimating recovery time between meetings
  • Late arrivals or missed appointments that appear careless but are not
  • Increased anxiety and shame when the behaviour is misread as a lack of effort

Importantly, this is not a question of effort or willpower. Researcher Dr Russell Barkley has described ADHD-related challenges as deficits not in knowledge but in performance, driven by differences in executive functioning. When managers understand this, they respond differently.

Everyone has a rhythm: are you paying attention?

Beyond time blindness, there is another important layer to the neurodiversity and time conversation: natural energy rhythms.

While some people are productive at 8am, others hit their stride mid-afternoon or in quieter, lower-stimulation periods. These patterns are influenced by chronotype, sleep, nutrition, environment, and sensory input  and for neurodivergent individuals, they can be particularly pronounced.

A team member might be sharply focused and idea-rich in the morning, but struggle to process verbal instructions after lunch. Or they may be slower to start but become deeply productive later in the day, particularly when the office has quietened down.

Neither pattern is wrong. Both are real, and both have implications for how work should be designed and scheduled.

Why this matters for HR and leadership

Understanding and working with these personal time rhythms is a leadership responsibility, not just a personal preference.

When organisations design work around peak energy periods, the results are measurable: increased productivity, improved wellbeing and morale, stronger employee retention, and better return on investment from external support such as Access to Work provisions.

But here is the key: these adjustments must be made with people, not to them. Imposing a new schedule without understanding someone’s actual patterns is unlikely to help and may cause harm.

Neurodiversity and time: why partnership is everything

Effective support is not about top-down change. It is about partnership, creating space where employees and managers can explore together what works, what does not, and what could help.

This is where a coaching approach becomes genuinely valuable. Rather than jumping straight to solutions, coaching invites curiosity and collaboration. It makes space for questions like:

  • When do you feel most focused during the day?
  • What tends to drain your energy?
  • How do you know when you are slipping into overwhelm?
  • What adjustments have helped you before, even small ones?
  • What would a good working day look like for you?

This kind of conversation, when handled well, shifts the dynamic from performance management to genuine partnership. It also tends to surface practical, low-cost, high-impact adjustments.

As coach and author Claire Pedrick puts it: “Great coaching is not about fixing people; it is about enabling them to think.” In a workplace context, that might mean co-designing a schedule, experimenting with different meeting times, or negotiating deadlines that better match natural energy peaks, all with shared ownership and respect.

Practical approaches that make a difference

Supporting neurodivergent team members with time-related challenges can involve a range of practical tools and adjustments.

Some approaches that work well include:

  • Visual timers or clocks to reinforce time awareness
  • Time-blocking techniques tailored to energy levels, not arbitrary 9-to-5 slots
  • External reminders and accountability tools, such as apps or shared calendars
  • Regular check-ins to review workload and energy across the week
  • Encouraging the use of Access to Work support for coaching or assistive technology

What matters most is that the process is collaborative. What works for one person will not work for everyone, and building in space to test, adjust, and review is what makes any of these strategies sustainable.

If you are unsure where to start, a Workplace Needs Assessment provides a structured, evidence-based way to identify what adjustments would make the most difference for a specific individual.

Building a culture of time awareness

Supporting neurodivergent employees with time and energy is not just about individual adjustments. It reflects a broader aspect of workplace culture.

Moving away from one-size-fits-all assumptions about the ideal working day, and towards asking when people work best and how the organisation can support that, creates a ripple effect. Trust improves. Output improves. People stay longer.

That shift benefits not only neurodivergent employees. It tends to benefit everyone.

Ready to take the next step?

If you would like to build this kind of understanding across your management team, our talks and workshops are designed to give managers the practical knowledge and confidence to have exactly these conversations.

For individual employees who would benefit from one-to-one support with time, energy, and executive function, our coaching offer is a natural next step.

You are also welcome to get in touch to discuss a specific situation or sign up for our newsletter for monthly insights on supporting neurodivergent employees at work.

 

Perfection vs excellence

Excellence vs Perfection: A Neurodivergent Perspective

I recently worked with Peter who is responsible for managing union activists within a teacher’s union. Peter had been a successful teacher who had left the classroom due to frustration with government policy that got in the way of his passion for teaching. He then moved into the union supporting teachers to be the absolute best they can be in their job. Peter has a dyslexic diagnosis, and this impacts his ability to process information along with his short-term memory. I should emphasise that he is extremely competent at his job and exercises a high level of emotional intelligence especially when dealing with union members, but he has struggled with perfection vs excellence in his role.

Recently Peter has undergone changes at work as his union has been taken over by a larger union, which has meant a complete change in infrastructure and IT with many new systems being introduced along with additional processes. I should mention at this point Peter has a well-rounded education including a master’s degree in organisational management, he is a well thought of and highly trained individual working in a frontline role because he wants to make a direct difference to teachers. Peter always wants to do the absolute best job he can, often at the expense of personal time and well-being.

Working with Peter through a series of coaching sessions we were able to explore the difference between excellence and perfection and why it is vital to understand it. I must emphasise here, I’m not suggesting Peter should be doing shoddy work that is unfit for purpose, the issue was that the work he was producing was so far above and beyond what was required. It meant other clients were not getting what they needed (nor was he).

Excellence vs perfection

Excellence is about doing the right things, in the best way possible and doing them well enough to meet what is required. It also means accepting that there is always room for improvement and ironically that perfection should be your goal. You also need to have a reality check that you are highly unlikely to get there, but if you keep aiming in that direction your current working processes will just get better and better. This is a growth mindset, it’s about building on yesterday, recognising what could have been done better and doing it. In addition to that, it is also about being kind to yourself.

It is a journey of wonder and surprise

Perfection is the definitive 100% right way to do something and is completely unobtainable and if you do try and obtain it you will use a disproportionate amount of energy and gain a diminishing return for what you are doing, often causing anxiety stress and disappointment. This can further manifest in depression, procrastination and ultimately poor performance within individuals and teams.

It is a destination with no seats

For Peter, much of this was to do with the changes that were taking place in his role and responsibilities and how he felt he needed to be able to continue to deliver one hundred per cent, even though all these changes were happening. A breakthrough moment happened when we talked about the concepts of working in your job and working on your job, as for excellence to take place your processes and working practices need to be a well-oiled machine. This means taking time to understand them and innovate to meet the needs of your organisation, but more importantly to meet your own needs to achieve your objectives. For Peter, this was a breakthrough moment that enabled him to look at his job in a different way. He recognised although he wasn’t the most senior person in the organisation he was the most senior person who had control over what he did because he was able to manage himself. Once Peter started to take this point of view, excellence became the only option. He couldn’t have perfection in a changing, innovating workplace because by its very nature improvement involves failure and learning.

This was a life-changing moment for Peter and something he has been able to use as he has moved to a role with more responsibility since completing his coaching. If this is something that is of interest to you, please get in contact.